Master Your Bliss Life

Ep.4- Feeling Sexy Is Not Abandoning Yourself

Lia Bliss Season 2 Episode 4

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Going back through the old episodes, our #2 most-streamed of all time was called "Feel Sexy" — and rewatching it, I realized I never actually said the thing I meant. 

So here's the redo. Feeling sexy has nothing to do with how much you spend on yourself. Real self-care isn't consumerism or a weekly massage — it's not abandoning yourself. I've been single for most of 15 years, so I started treating myself the way I treat the people I love: I literally ask myself, "baby girl, what do you need?" and then I go get it. 

Coffee, a nap, a hard boundary — whatever the most loving action is. That's the filter for everything: what's the highest degree of love I can give myself right now? Sometimes that's booking the massage and the sitter. Sometimes it's NOT spending money you don't have. And when you do it on repeat, you build trust with yourself — the kind that lets you make scary business decisions and know you'll be okay, because you won't abandon you. 

I also get into Shelby Sapp's "don't double-dip the dopamine days" rule, why everyone is always selling something, performative hot girl energy, the insane beauty standards where I live, and how it took me a full year to sit on the couch and do nothing without guilt. 

As soon as the "shoulds" show up, that's your sign. Don't abandon yourself. 

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