Master Your Bliss Life

Ep.10- Because I Want To

Lia Bliss Season 2 Episode 10

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I have hated the "start with why" exercise my entire coaching life. You know the one — you say what you want, someone asks why, and why, and why again, until you supposedly hit some noble, world-saving reason underneath it all. Every single time I did it I landed in the exact same place: because I want it. And then I'd throw judgment all over myself for not having a save-the-whales answer.

This week in my coaching group I finally got language for why that never worked on me — and it turns out nothing is wrong with me. There are three doors into change: being, doing, and feeling. Some people start with the feeling and it moves them to act. Some start with the doing. I start with being. Ask me why and I've got nothing. Ask me what I want and I'll build you the whole plan.

I also walk you through a decade-mapping exercise that wrecked me in the best way — going back through every year of your life and marking four things: what made you proud, what brought you joy, where you carried a burden that wasn't yours, and where shame showed up. Watching shame cluster in my early twenties and then thin out while the proud stuff took over? That's not a summer rebrand. That's years of different decisions finally showing their fruit. (Also: you apparently can't realistically plan past three years. Which is a relief.)

The moment it clicked was booking a Disney World trip for me and my son — crying at the confirmation screen because I knew what I wanted, I did what it took, and the feeling showed up last. It always shows up. So here's what I want you to take with you: you do not need a grand, bigger-than-you reason. "Because I want to" is a complete sentence.

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